Friday, July 20, 2012

Sometimes I could Scream



"When men feel inconsequential, it’s easier to blame women than it is to confront patriarchy - the true source of the diminishment and lack of meaning in so many men’s lives. When men feel unloved and disconnected, it’s easier to accuse women of not loving them well enough than it is to consider men’s own alienation from life. It’s easier to think of women as keeping men from the essence of their own lives than it is to see how men’s participation in patriarchy can suffocate and kill the life within themselves. It’s easier to theorize about powerful, devouring mothers than to confront the reality of patriarchy.


Beneath the massive denial of men’s power and responsibility and its projection onto women is an enormous pool of rage, resentment, and fear. Rather than look at patriarchy and their place within it, many men will beat, rape, torture, murder, and oppress women, children, and one another. They will wage mindless war and offer themselves up for the slaughter, chain themselves to jobs and work themselves to numbed exhaustion as if their lives had no value or meaning beyond controlling or being controlled or defending against control, and content themselves with half-lives of confused, lost deprivation. What men lack, women didn’t take from them, and it isn’t up to women to give it back".

Mermaid

Who need legs,
When your God
lies under


the

sea?

beautiful words by Karuna Chandrashekar :)

Thursday, July 19, 2012

Ariel & Me




well...last time my blog address starts with Mermaid....and long time ago....my email id..yahoo id...it was all Little Mermaid...
I have always loved fairy tales!!!
and the tale of mermaid has always remained my all time favourite...
i still remember....the collection of fairy tales I had in my room...
i loved the fairy tales...and Mermaid was the first one i read...
well....wonder whats so good about fairy tales???
'coz its so far away from reality...
you always see in the end..."and they lived HAPPILY EVER AFTER"
its so beautiful...wonderful...and adventurous....
Mermaid had a totally full of all her fishy and sea life...
but finally she finds her PRINCE CHARMING...
i wish the life was also so beautiful...with an end...happily ever after...
right from those childhood days i have kept waiting for a day the life's totally gona be beautiful...colorful...just like fairy tales..

Wednesday, July 18, 2012

I know I wanted to blog something right now, but now the window is open and its raining out there. So I forgot of the matter I wants to blog.
For now I'm super excited about watching Billa-2, before most people in Malaysia. ☺
Lets say it's a usual kiddy thing about getting something first before anyone else.. teeheee
Actually there are lots of stuffs to write down, especially on the Thillana I'm composing for my mom's Bharathanatyam students for their salangai pooja.
I'm having super fun! :D

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Monday, July 16, 2012

101 thing that makes LIFE worth Living


  1. Chumbawumba (nice word)
  2. Blowing the gel out of gel pens
  3. Being loud at inappropriate times
  4. Smelling the rain and drinking hot coffee at the same time
  5. Hot chocolate just after getting soaked
  6. Feeling your stomach hurt after laughing too much
  7. That feeling of being in a movie
  8. Everything about the beach
  9. Hearing the right song at the right time
  10. Hugs when you really need them
  11. Knowing that someone understands without having to tell them J
  12. Pink Floyd and terrace. Actually, ANY good music and a terrace.
  13. Waking up really late after one hell of a crazy night
  14. Purple sugary marshmallows
  15. The first sip of Coffee Day hot mocha
  16. The stage minus stage fright
  17. Singing
  18. Freaking out innocent passersby on the road
  19. Lying on the beach at night staring at the stars
  20. Road trips with friends
  21. Sleepovers with no sleep involved J
  22. Realizing your crush likes you
  23. Being a bitch
  24. Olamacheeka, swee and drrrrrey
  25. Canceling out huge terms in a really big sum and getting a one digit answer
  26. Dancing in the rain
  27. *Sparkly purple stuff*
  28. Swinging really high on swings and singing tunelessly
  29. Feeling loved
  30. Foodfights with gooey food
  31. Making people laugh
  32. Being part of a winning team
  33. New clothes!!
  34. Doggy kisses
  35. Being happy-high
  36. Smelling nice and knowing it
  37. Going into random stores, trying on stuff, taking pictures and then leaving J
  38. Playing practical jokes on teachers
  39. Laughing for no reason at all
  40. And going on and on laughing for insane periods of time until people think youre mad
  41. People thinking you’re mad
  42. And then laughing at them
  43. Big Bear Hugs!! J
  44. Chocodip ice-cream
  45. Seeing someone you love after a long time
  46. Hearing a song you love after a long time
  47. Going crazy!
  48. Making eye contact with a cute stranger
  49. Laughing and crying at the same time
  50. Wish you were here
  51. Crying when you see or hear something really beautiful
  52. Looong walks with friends
  53. Blowing BIG bubbles
  54. Wearing prettiful clothes
  55. People playing with your hair
  56. Waterbeds!
  57. Cheesy pizza
  58. Cold water when you’re parched
  59. Exchanging lame-o-supremo jokes and laughing until you cry
  60. Peeing after holding for a long time
  61. Dressing up
  62. Taking a nice bath just before going to sleep
  63. Bonding with friends in silence
  64. Knowing you aren’t the only one
  65. Bunking classes
  66. Doing well in an exam
  67. And realizing you’ve scored highest
  68. Gossip
  69. Mushy parts of a movie/sitcom/book
  70. Knowing something no one else does
  71. Scoring a goal/basket by fluke
  72. Being the *best*
  73. People remembering you as ‘that girl who won that competition’
  74. People you dont know recognizing you
  75. Having long late night phone conversationsJ
  76. Having a lot of cash
  77. Presents!
  78. Having NO work to do
  79. People calling at midnight to wish you a happy birthday
  80. People coming over at midnight
  81. Surprise birthday parties  planning one or having one!
  82. Knowing you did the right thing
  83. Tripping on someone
  84. Being tripped on and laughing at yourself with everyone else
  85. Having a shoulder to lean on when you’re crying at a movie
  86. Going to school again, seeing all your friends and special places in school…the nostalgia
  87. Doing something nice for someone you love
  88. Being in your happy special world
  89. Being wicked
  90. Being absorbed in your drawing/writing
  91. Reading a really good book
  92. Cuddling up in a quilt with a good book, hot chocolate and good music when it’s cold and rainy outside
  93. Lazy afternoons with friends (Movie + AC + appy + pizza) J
  94. Going fast on an open highway with the windows down and the music up
  95. Jumping on a trampoline
  96. Cotton candy and ice-cream
  97. Pani puri
  98. Compliments J
  99. Secrets!
100. Dancing like no one’s watching
101. Making lists


this is what exactly I wanted to list down but just too bored to write down... haha you know.. I'm a boredom Bloggie ☻


originally by Aditi

Photo Blog!!

Okay now to say the true, I always wish to have a my own photo blog over here in this blogsphere. But didn't sign up for an ID. But last I do had an online photo blog site and it was in Flickr. I don't like it very much, as it takes very long time from uploading. Having a photo blog here in blogspot is so much different from any other sites on web. We can design our own layout for our blog and having our own header and so on. But I don't find this advantages on other blogging sites. One year and 7 months of blogging experience, now starts a new blog. Nia's Photo. Thinking what's Nia means?? haha :) It's actually my pet name. Parents calls me Nia. So do follow my photo blog but please don't kidnap any pics from there. It's all my own snapshots. Thank u :)

My Little Pots of Dreams


Remember the good old days when your parents taught you how to save? How they tried to make you realize the value of money. The first lessons on how to save money??? The little money pots (or call it money boxes) they bought for us. I still remember my first money pot. it was in the shape of a swan :) when I first learned the arts of saving money (did i learn it???..i guess no). let's at least say...when I first thought about saving money. my mom used to tell me little stories. and let me realize how much importance money had in everyday life. she used to tell me once the pot is full we shall buy this and that. :) and the feeling used to be great. how I used to put every single penny into my pot. I even used to quit buying candies 'coz I was all into "Saving Money". :) and then slowly as we grow up we realize "saving money" is not so much of an easy task. but still we keep little dreams and little goals for ourself. and try to save it. for a friends b'day for your parents anniversary. I made up small small reasons to save money. and yes to an extend I used to be successful good at it. :) The shapes and trends of my money saver boxes kept changing from little cute animal shapes to beautiful cindrella and barbie sets to wooden shaded classic collections with my age the money box changed its face. now that I am grown up and started working. I have started to earn myself but I have no money box anymore. but I still have my little pot of DREAMS... :) (where I save my dreams of owning a beautiful home.)

Thursday, July 12, 2012

Just asking though

Does an artiste exist and prosper because of her talent and expertise in the art
or because of fans? * Would love to know each one of your opinions* 


Thank You

ABC for LIFE

A - Accept

Accept others for who they are and for the choices they've made even if you have difficulty in understanding their beliefs, motives or actions.

B - Break Away

Break away from everything that stands in the way of what you hope to accomplish in your life.

C - Create

Create a family of friends with whom you can share your hopes, dreams, sorrows and happiness.

D - Decide

Decide that you'll be successful and happy come what may and good things will find you. The roadblocks are only minor obstacles along the way.

E - Explore

Explore and experiment. The world has much to offer and you have much to give. And every time you try something new, you'll learn more about yourself.

F - Forgive

Forgive and forget. Grudges only weigh you down and inspire unhappiness and grief. Soar above it and remember that everyone makes mistakes.

G - Grow

Leave the childhood monsters behind. They can no longer hurt you or stand in your way.

H - Hope

Hope for the best and never forget that anything is possible as long as you remain dedicated to the task.

I - Ignore

Ignore the negative voice inside your head. Focus instead on your goals and remember your accomplishments. Your past success is only a small inkling of what the future holds for you.

J - Journey

Journey to new worlds, new possibilities by remaining open-minded. Try to learn something new every day and you'll grow.

K - Know

Know that no matter how bad things seem, they'll always get better. The warmth of spring always follows the harshest winter.

L - Love

Let love fill your heart instead of hate. When hate is in your heart, there's room for nothing else, but when love is in your heart, there's room for endless happiness.

M - Manage

Manage your time and your expenses wisely and you'll suffer less stress and worry. Then you'll be able to focus on the important things in life.

N - Notice

Never ignore the poor, infirm, helpless, weak or thode who suffer. Offer your assistance when possible and always share your kindness and understanding.

O - Open

Open your eyes and take in all the beauty around you. Even during the worst of times there's still much to be thankful for.

P - Play

Never forget to have fun along the way. Success means nothing without happiness.

Q - Question

Ask many questions because you're here to learn.

R - Relax

Refuse to let worry and stress rule your life and remember that things always have a way of working out in the end.

S - Share

Share your talent, skills, knowledge and time with others. Everything that you invest in others will return to you many times over.

T - Try

Even when your dreams seem impossible to reach, try anyway. You'll be amazed by what you can accomplish.

U - Use

Use your gifts to your best ability. Talent that's wasted has no value. Talent that's used will bring unexpected rewards.

V - Value

Value the friends and family members who have supported and encouraged you and be there for them as well.

W - Work

Work hard every day to be the best person you can be but never feel guilty if you fall short of your goals. Every sunrise offers a second chance.

X - X-Ray

Look deep inside the hearts of those around you and you'll see the goodness and beauty within.

Y - Yield

Yield to commitment. If you stay on track and remain dedicated, you'll find success at the end of the road.

Z - Zoom

Zoom to a happy place when bad memories or sorrow rears its ugly head. Let nothing interfere with your goals. Instead, focus on your abilities, your dreams and a brighter tomorrow.

Monday, July 9, 2012

25 Things about me..

1. I’m god’s child

2. Cool

3. Not very moody but sometimes I’m the very very moodiest person.. I think!

4. Pink Lover

5. Speaks Telugu, English and Tamil

6. Cinema ante chala ishtam.

7. fan of Super Star Rajinikanth.. but there more stars to list down too but SS is always the top.

8. Hates when someone bug me.

9. Bharathanatyam Dance

10. I’m considered “him” as my brother

11. Premalo nammakam lethu

12. Music!!! live life

13. I don’t imitate anyone. Love being myself as Rubini Shetty

14. Parents calls me Nia.

15. twitter? Knowledge!

16. Not a make up lover

17. singer?? hard question. I reckon ;p

18. Won’t believe anyone easily.

19. I don’t beg for love

20. Hate the peoples whoever making love in-front of my eyes.

21. no best friends, but can say one as good friend.

22. I don’t have the habit of forgiving easily.

23. Promise is a big word. So I don’t do that.

24. Favourite Person is always Anusha Dhayanidhi

25. south-mythili prakash, north-amrapali…………

and that is it. 25 facts about me.

Thursday, July 5, 2012

Take Every Opportunity

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I was sitting on a bench 

When I noticed a young mother with two children who were small.

The youngest one was whining, "Pick me up," I heard him beg,

but the mother's face grew angry as the child clung to her leg.

"Don't hang on to me," she shouted, as she pushed his hands away.

I wish I'd had the courage to go up to her and say:

The time will come too quickly when those little arms that tug,

Won't ask for you to hold them or won't freely give a hug.

The day will sneak up subtly just as it did with me,

When you can't recall the last time that your child sat on your knee.

Like those sacred, pre-dawn feedings when we cherished time alone...

Our babies grow and leave behind those special times we've known.

So when your child comes to you with a book that you can share,

Or asks that you would tuck him in and help him say his prayer...

When he comes to sit and chat or would like to take a walk,

Before you answer that you can't because there's no time to talk...

Remember what all parents learn so many times too late,

That years go by too quickly and that childhood doesn't wait.

Take every opportunity if one should slip away

Reach hard to get it back again, don't wait another day.

I watched that mother walk away, her children followed near,

I hope she'll pick them up before her chances disappear...

So a trial post

this is just a trial post from Windows Live Writer. Hope all will goes well. Btw any of you guys had tried this before?? do let me know for the features and updates amigos. SmileSmile

Wednesday, July 4, 2012

Que Sera Sera

Do you guys know how much i love this song? Wait!!! Not the kindergarden rhymes Que Sera Sera, but it's Kay Sera Sera a fantastic hit song of 90's from a hindi movie called PUKAR. I suspect if you ever watching me with my iPod, I always stuck with this song in my playlist. Even the video is super awesome. Prabhu's choreography is like so quirky but the steps are so beautiful for Madhuri Dixit. Today for some reason, it's been running in my head on repeat mode so I figure I'd play it for you too.






Naujawaanon, baat maanoKabhi kisise naa pyaar karna] - 2

[Hey, que sera sera sera, jo bhi ho so ho
Hamein pyaar ka ho aasara, phir chaahe jo ho] - 2
Pyaar zindagi, pyaar har khushi,
Pyaar jisne paaya hai
Vohi dil phool jaisa khilaa

Pyaar galti hai, pyaar dhoka hai
Pyaar galti chaaya hai
Dekho phir naa karna gilaa

Oh, pyaar zindagi, pyaar har khushi,
Pyaar jisne paaya hai
Vohi dil phool jaisa khilaa

Pyaar galti hai, pyaar dhoka hai
Pyaar galti chaaya hai
Dekho phir naa karna gilaa

Pyaar hi dhadkanon ki kahani hai
Pyaar hai haseen daastan 

Pyaar ashkon ki Behta nishaani hai
Pyaar mein hai chain kahan

Pyaar ki baat jisne naa maani hai
Uski naa to zameen hai naa hai aasman 

Naujawaanon, baat maano
Kabhi kisise naa pyaar karna

Hey, que sera sera sera, jo bhi ho so ho
Hamein pyaar ka ho aasara, phir chaahe jo ho

Hey, que sera sera sera, jo bhi ho so ho
Hamein pyaar ka ho aasara, phir chaahe jo ho

Oh, pyaar jaise hai purab paschim
Pyaar hai uttar dakshin
Yahan hai pyaar hi har dishaan

Pyaar rog hai, pyaar dard hai
Pyaar tode dil ek din
Yahi hai pyaar ka silsila

Pyaar se hi to rangeen jeevan hai
Pyaar se hi dil hai jawaan 

Pyaar kaaton ka jaise koi pann hai
Pyaar se hi gham ka samaa 

Pyaar se jaane kyoon tumko uljhan hai
Pyaar to saari duniya pe hai maherabaan

Naujawaanon - 3 

Hey, que sera sera sera, jo bhi ho so ho
Hamein pyaar ka ho aasara, phir chaahe jo ho - 2

Aaaa aaaa 

Na na na na naujawaanon, na na na na, na na na na
Na na na na, na na na na...
Naujawaanon
Na na na na na.....

Hey, que sera sera sera, jo bhi ho so ho
Hamein pyaar ka ho aasara, phir chaahe jo ho
Hamein pyaar ka ho aasara, phir chaahe jo ho
Hey, que sera sera sera sera, jo bhi ho so ho
Hamein pyaar ka ho aasara, phir chaahe jo ho

Na na na na na.....

Pyaar - 13

Okay, okay, okay

Hamein pyaar ka ho aasara, phir chaahe jo ho - 2
Hey, que sera sera sera sera, jo bhi ho so ho
Hamein pyaar ka ho aasara, phir chaahe jo ho
Phir chaahe jo ho - 2.............................