Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Manners and In-Laws

There are always problems occurring between Mother-in-law and Daughter-in-Law. And I'm always reading it in newspaper since my 11 years.

Last week my friend Neesha went to her mother-in-law's home for a week holiday with her husband. And since the first day of her arrival to her in-laws home both them called to Neesha's mom and complaining about each other. The Mother-In-Law says, you never raised up your daughter in a good way. Just see how she's behaving. She don't even knows the manner way to behave in front of the elders. Past these 2 days she's waking up after 11am and takes lunch and dinner before other and complaint there are no enough and favorite food for her. Is this the way a daughter-in-law behaves?? What will you do if your daughter-in-law does so??

Well now the daughter's turn!! My mother-in-law is the most worst lady in the world. She just kept sitting on the easy chair and ask me to do all those house-chorus!! Is it fair?? Will she do it for her own daughter and will she sit in the chair and looking while her daughter's in-law torture her as this. She is so much cruel lady. I hate her. Is this the way her mother-in-law treat her or her mother treat her daughter-in-law. What a cheap family is this and why you made me to marry him??

Mother was so fade up of hearing this all for past few days and she planned to talk with her son-in-law but he just pretend like the way nothing happened anything as his mom or wife says.

Mother-in-laws should learn to close with their daughter-in-laws. And yes not all daughter in laws are good nor all mother in laws are cruel. Some in-laws really take care of their son's wife as their own daughters. Sharing out all kind of stuffs, cook together, shopping together, watch movie together. But some nasty cruel mother-in-laws doesn't even let their daughter in laws to watch their favorite programme on TV and should watch what the in-laws watch. And this is all some kind of too much the in-laws behave and this make the young couples to come to decision of DIVORCE.

Mostly 82% of marriage life ended up in divorce with the reason of the torture by mother-in-laws. My question is why does the in-laws behave as this or just they wants too take avenge on their daugher-in-laws just because once them had been threaten in the same way? Oh!! Come on then. This shouldn't be the way but you have to be more nicer to your daughter-in-law till she feels you like her own mom but not as the cruel step mother. If mother-in-laws starts to be nice to these young ladies DIVORCE percentage might come down by very easily and there will be no reasons for the second marriage.

And mother's also should trained their daughter to give respect to the elder and behave so manner when you stayed up in some ones home. If anything goes wrong in this, girls remember they are going to blame your family only.